mumbai Attacks and our approach

I am quite unhappy the way we react to the attacks on India like Mumbai attacks two months back. We ( as per our media) are proudly saying that we are mounting pressure on Pakistan to take action on the militants living in Pakistan. And what are we doing with the militants caught in India and still waiting to be hanged (despite the fact he was sentenced for this punishment by supreme court of India).
We claim that there is international pressure on Pakistan against terrorism, And we find nothing on them rather more and more financial aids to Pak.
When will we declare war against this Gurilla war. Until when we will keep on saying that this was terrorist attack. When will we accept this as Gurilla war, this is just not an attack, this is war. Can we really win this by just saying few words before media and burning some candles in a peace march. No we need to have a stronger policy for this.